Are You Holding Your Dog Correctly? Essential Tips for Pet Parents
Proper Dog Holding Techniques: A Guide for Pet Parents

Ever found yourself on a walk when your furry friend suddenly decides they've had enough, leaving you with no option but to scoop them up? Or perhaps you need to move them for a quick bath or a vet visit? While picking up your dog might seem straightforward, many pet parents unknowingly use methods that can cause discomfort or even injury. Understanding the correct way to hold your dog isn't just about convenience; it's about ensuring their safety and well-being. Let's dive into the essential techniques to make every lift a comfortable experience for your canine companion.
Why Knowing How to Hold Your Dog Matters
Life with a dog often involves moments when you need to pick them up. Whether it's to navigate a busy street, lift them into the car, or simply cuddle them on the couch, knowing the right technique is crucial. An improper lift can put unnecessary strain on your dog's joints and spine, potentially leading to pain, injury, or even a fear of being handled. This is especially true for puppies, senior dogs, or those with pre-existing health conditions like arthritis.
Think of it from your dog's perspective: they rely on their legs for stability and movement. When you lift them, you're temporarily taking away that stability. A secure and supportive hold makes them feel safe and comfortable, reinforcing trust between you. Conversely, a clumsy or painful lift can make them anxious and resistant to future handling, turning a simple act into a stressful ordeal for both of you.
Common Mistakes to Avoid When Picking Up Your Dog
Before we discuss the correct methods, let's highlight some common ways people mistakenly pick up their dogs that can cause harm. Avoiding these practices is the first step towards becoming a more mindful and caring pet parent.
- Lifting by the Front Legs or Armpits: This is a very common but harmful mistake. When you place your hands under a dog's armpits and lift, you put immense pressure on their front legs, shoulders, and spine. This can lead to ligament tears, muscle strain, or even shoulder and elbow dislocations. For older dogs with arthritis or degenerative joint disease, this method can be excruciatingly painful and exacerbate their condition.
- Lifting by the Scruff of the Neck: While a mother dog might carry her newborn puppies this way for a few weeks, it's an unnatural and uncomfortable method for older puppies and adult dogs. Their bodies are no longer designed to be supported by the scruff, and doing so can cause pain, injury, and a strong sense of distress.
- Pulling or Lifting by the Collar: Never attempt to lift your dog by their collar. This can cause choking, restrict their breathing, and damage vital organs in their neck, including the trachea and larynx. Collars are for leash attachment and identification, not for lifting.
- Pulling or Lifting by the Tail: The tail is an extension of your dog's spine and contains sensitive nerves and muscles. Pulling or lifting a dog by its tail can cause severe nerve damage, muscle injury, and even lead to a loss of tail function, preventing them from wagging or even affecting their ability to control their bladder and bowels.
Reading Your Dog's Discomfort Signals
Your dog might not always vocalize their discomfort with a yelp or growl. Often, they'll give subtle cues that indicate they're feeling stressed, anxious, or even in pain when being handled incorrectly. Many owners overlook these signals, assuming their dog is simply tolerating the situation.
Pay attention to signs like yawning, lip licking, averting their gaze, or struggling to get away. These are all indicators that your dog is experiencing some level of anxiety or discomfort. Just because they aren't screaming doesn't mean they aren't suffering. Learning to recognize these subtle body language cues will help you adjust your handling approach and ensure your dog feels safe and comfortable during every interaction.
The Right Way to Hold Your Dog
Now that we've covered what not to do, let's explore the proper techniques for safely and comfortably picking up your dog, tailored to their size.
For Small Dogs (Under 25 lbs / 12 kg)
If your dog weighs less than 25 pounds, use a two-handed approach. Place your dominant arm under your dog's chest, between their front legs. With your other arm, support their hindquarters. Gently lift, keeping their back securely against your body. This method distributes their weight evenly, supports their spine, and makes them feel secure, preventing any accidental slips or falls.
For Medium Dogs (25-40 lbs / 12-18 kg)
For dogs weighing between 25 and 40 pounds, a slightly different technique is needed to provide adequate support. Place your dominant arm under their hind legs, ensuring their rear is fully supported. Use your other arm to wrap around their front chest, reaching towards their hind legs if possible, and bring their body close to your chest for support. This cradling method ensures their entire body is supported, minimizing strain on their joints and making them feel stable and safe during the lift.
Always remember, the goal is to make your dog feel secure and comfortable. Approach them calmly, speak in a soothing voice, and ensure you have a firm but gentle grip before lifting. Practice these techniques regularly, and you'll build a stronger, more trusting bond with your beloved companion.
Frequently Asked Questions
Q1: Can I lift my puppy by the scruff of their neck?
A1: While a mother dog might carry very young puppies (only a few weeks old) by the scruff, it is not recommended for pet owners. Once puppies are a bit older, this method becomes uncomfortable and potentially harmful. Always use a supportive two-handed technique, similar to how you'd lift a small adult dog, to ensure their safety and comfort.
Q2: My dog struggles when I try to pick them up. What should I do?
A2: If your dog struggles, it could be due to fear, past negative experiences, or even pain. First, ensure you're using the correct lifting technique. If they continue to struggle, try positive reinforcement: offer treats and praise when they allow you to approach and touch them, gradually working up to a lift. If the struggling persists or seems pain-related, consult your veterinarian to rule out any underlying medical issues.
Q3: Is it okay to lift my dog by their harness?
A3: While a harness distributes pressure better than a collar, lifting a dog solely by their harness is generally not recommended unless it's an emergency or the harness is specifically designed for lifting (e.g., a support harness for senior or injured dogs). For routine lifting, always use your hands to support their body weight as described in the proper techniques to avoid putting undue strain on their chest or back.
Q4: How can I tell if my dog is uncomfortable when I'm holding them?
A4: Look for subtle signs of stress or discomfort. These can include yawning, lip licking, averting their gaze, tensing their body, trying to pull away, or even a low growl. If you notice any of these signals, gently put your dog down, reassess your technique, and try again more calmly, ensuring you provide full body support.







